When it comes to actually getting it on in the bedroom, your experience depends on your escort and on what you are comfortable with. Generally a service will include oral sex on you and intercourse, but keep in mind that you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. If you just feel like a blow job or a hand job it’s fine to ask for that.

Safe sex is really important and you’ll need to follow your escort’s lead. He will supply condoms and lube, and is responsible for putting the condom on correctly.

Keep in mind that this is about the whole experience, not just about getting off. Your escort will do his best to look after you but in the end it’s your responsibility as to whether you cum or not.

A lot of guys are nervous their first time around and don’t get hard, or get hard but are too nervous to cum. If this happens to you, try not to beat yourself up – we see it all the time and understand. Relax and keep doing whatever feels good! Even if it doesn’t happen exactly the way you planned, you don’t have to worry that we’ll think badly of you. This is your time to enjoy yourself and we aren’t going to judge you as long as you are respectful and friendly.

Speaking of respect, be attentive to his wishes. If he tells you to be gentler or asks to change positions it’s important to respect him, because unless we are having fun too it’s going to be a pretty miserable experience.

It’s nice to think that we could all read each other’s minds about what feels good but we can’t, so you do need to ask and say what you like. It’s still sexy and will allow him to relax and trust you (this works for non-escort guys too by the way!)


Your booking will generally finish up with some cuddling and chatting, with 10 or 15 minutes left over on travel bookings so that your guys can take a shower. It’s your escort’s responsibility to watch the time, however feel free to ask how much time you have left if you think he might be running late.

Your escort will take a shower and gather up their things. If it was a travel booking we may need to make a call for our driver to pick us up. When we are ready to leave, thanks are always appreciated if you had a good time. There’s no need to promise you’ll book again, and no pressure to tip unless you really want to.

I sometimes feel that guys are a little down at the end of a booking. Even if we had a great time, leaving reminds them that I am a professional and they worry that I may not have been genuine in my enjoyment. Rest assured that if you behaved like a gentleman and you are happy and satisfied, then we will feel happy too because making people happy is the whole reason we love this job!

It’s now time to pour yourself another drink and spend some time reflecting on the fun you’ve had. As great as the experience may be, the best thing you get to take away from it is the memories!